⋆Sopiya blogging nonsense⋆
Bottled up feelings
Wow
Its been so long since I blog on here. Its been like what? 3years. I wished I had that time where i can recreate blogskins and then be that crazy and obsess with html but sadly im not that free anymore. (Or u can say im just a lazy bitch)
Honestly i only came back to login so i can blog and write my feelings since no one will ever read this so is a good outlet for me to express myself fully. (Literally)
Bottled up feelings.
What is this hmmm.
Well, all this time i feel like im getting too much of a problem with myself that i lowkey cant deal.
Suicidal thoughts, self harm.. panic attacks...
I mean I do tell some of my close friends on how im feeling but i dont go telling them the full extend of my matters. I literally find that no one. Honestly no one can relate to me more than myself. No one can help me other than myself. Is literally just my own will power.
I feel alone.
Suicidal thoughts.
With just that I feel the words itself already expresses it. I get occasionally the urge to do it. Sometimes watching those crime scene or videos on reddit/ tumblr/insta numbs me. Or i even pictured myself being the victim of it. I find myself thinking what if i just do it now? Will anyone bother to cry over me? I feel like only my family will do. Perhaps maybe some of my friends who care will be mourning but all this only last for awhile and then is all gone. Im literally a memory afterwards. What do i even leave behind? Nothing. Im just a name over a dead body after.
I always said i want to write a note before i did it but i never ever do it. Im too much of a pussy. Because i find that if i ever write the letter... i would honestly just do it already. Like for real.
Recently too, my friend keep wanting to do it too. I literally don't know how to handle the situation. I feel bad because i cant comfort well. I want to comfort my friend well but i cant? Im just a loser in that situation. The only way i can comfort is just by saying im here for u or that just message me when u need to talk im here. Obviously i do mean it but is just i feel such a shit person for not being able to do more? I want to do more for my friend but i suck at it. I really do..
Self harm
Why do u do it sophia? Honestly i dont know myself. Maybe it was because i cant feel pain pain, and only physical pain makes me alive? Maybe because i think that by having real pain, my life would be better? Or perhaps this pain will leak out and my inner thoughts can be let go? Well i don't know??? I cant figure out myself. Im always telling my friend who does it to not do it. But i myself do it???? Im such a hypocrite but then again i cant control my urges. It just comes. If i dont do it i think about it everyday till i just did it again and then i will stop after. Regret. Cry over it and im done with it for that moment.
Repeat. The cycles will repeat. I tell myself ok lets be clean for a month. After a month or less i relapse. Repeat.
Panic attacks
Why does this happen? I dont know i really dont know the cause of my attacks. Im still finding out. Recently it got worst from stress? Im now chill again as in is my holiday im not feeling that awful. But then again im afraid when it will strike back. Will it happen when im not at home? That will be such a bad thing. I dont want anyone to see me freaking out having a full blown break down. I want to be alone when it happen... i really do..
All this feelings i feel better after i type out wow. And its like almost 4am now. I hope that this will be a much better outlet for me instead of twitter or tumblr.etc since literally im not crying for help anymore.
I want to be brave i want to face these problems well. I hope i can. What is this tho? Is it depression? I guess it is. Can i get it over one day. I guess not? But i just wish those thoughts were lesser...
Bottled up feelings
Wow
Its been so long since I blog on here. Its been like what? 3years. I wished I had that time where i can recreate blogskins and then be that crazy and obsess with html but sadly im not that free anymore. (Or u can say im just a lazy bitch)
Honestly i only came back to login so i can blog and write my feelings since no one will ever read this so is a good outlet for me to express myself fully. (Literally)
Bottled up feelings.
What is this hmmm.
Well, all this time i feel like im getting too much of a problem with myself that i lowkey cant deal.
Suicidal thoughts, self harm.. panic attacks...
I mean I do tell some of my close friends on how im feeling but i dont go telling them the full extend of my matters. I literally find that no one. Honestly no one can relate to me more than myself. No one can help me other than myself. Is literally just my own will power.
I feel alone.
Suicidal thoughts.
With just that I feel the words itself already expresses it. I get occasionally the urge to do it. Sometimes watching those crime scene or videos on reddit/ tumblr/insta numbs me. Or i even pictured myself being the victim of it. I find myself thinking what if i just do it now? Will anyone bother to cry over me? I feel like only my family will do. Perhaps maybe some of my friends who care will be mourning but all this only last for awhile and then is all gone. Im literally a memory afterwards. What do i even leave behind? Nothing. Im just a name over a dead body after.
I always said i want to write a note before i did it but i never ever do it. Im too much of a pussy. Because i find that if i ever write the letter... i would honestly just do it already. Like for real.
Recently too, my friend keep wanting to do it too. I literally don't know how to handle the situation. I feel bad because i cant comfort well. I want to comfort my friend well but i cant? Im just a loser in that situation. The only way i can comfort is just by saying im here for u or that just message me when u need to talk im here. Obviously i do mean it but is just i feel such a shit person for not being able to do more? I want to do more for my friend but i suck at it. I really do..
Self harm
Why do u do it sophia? Honestly i dont know myself. Maybe it was because i cant feel pain pain, and only physical pain makes me alive? Maybe because i think that by having real pain, my life would be better? Or perhaps this pain will leak out and my inner thoughts can be let go? Well i don't know??? I cant figure out myself. Im always telling my friend who does it to not do it. But i myself do it???? Im such a hypocrite but then again i cant control my urges. It just comes. If i dont do it i think about it everyday till i just did it again and then i will stop after. Regret. Cry over it and im done with it for that moment.
Repeat. The cycles will repeat. I tell myself ok lets be clean for a month. After a month or less i relapse. Repeat.
Panic attacks
Why does this happen? I dont know i really dont know the cause of my attacks. Im still finding out. Recently it got worst from stress? Im now chill again as in is my holiday im not feeling that awful. But then again im afraid when it will strike back. Will it happen when im not at home? That will be such a bad thing. I dont want anyone to see me freaking out having a full blown break down. I want to be alone when it happen... i really do..
All this feelings i feel better after i type out wow. And its like almost 4am now. I hope that this will be a much better outlet for me instead of twitter or tumblr.etc since literally im not crying for help anymore.
I want to be brave i want to face these problems well. I hope i can. What is this tho? Is it depression? I guess it is. Can i get it over one day. I guess not? But i just wish those thoughts were lesser...
Sopiya, 18.
I love to be on the internet complaining about my life, reblogging away on tumblr, crying over fictional characters in books and tv shows, wishing my life can be like in the movies and imaginating my friends are youtubers.
♡ pandas, cats, hamsters any squishy fluffy animals and
pastel colours.
I'm what you call the typical fangirl from online. I have met some my favourite kidols and youtubers.
Favourite actors -Thomas-brodie Sangster, Jack Gleeson, Evan Peters and Steven Yeun
▶ Pewdiepie, Danisnotonfire, Amazingphil, TylerOakley, Pointlessblog, Thatcherjoe, Caspar, MarcusButler, Cinnamontoastken, Markiplier
Background information: I have been blogging since 2008. It all happen when stumbled upon a blogskin out of curiousity from a blogger(
yay she's my friend now btw), I started coding since then from google and also a little via blogskins. I also found the wonders of photoshop and I def improve my skills in using it.
Never did I knew that I would enter a course called " Social Media and Web development" where then I sort of advance my skills (
?) I don't really like this course except the photoshopping part tho. I graduate recently from the course.(
yay)
Stalk me?★
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100313 SHINee @ Singapore Entertainment Awards ♥
101025 Jay Park fanmeet @ wavehouse ♥
110219 SE7EN Showcase ♥
110715 Korean MusicWave 2011 SG ♥
110807 B1A4 arrival in SG ♥
110808 B1A4 Meet & Greet
110923 GDTOP SEUNGRI @ F1 ♥
110927 SEUNGRI @ airport departure ♥♥
111101 Minchul @ airport ;autograph
111111 Tatsuya Fujiwara fanmeet ( i won ! at backstage !)
Red carpet ; Movie premiere at the grand cathay ♥
111125 TEENTOP FANMEET !
L.Joe took my chick doll and fanboard + letter ♥ ; got L.Joe 's autograph ; stalking
111126 TEENTOP STALKING
NIEL TOOK MY FANBOARD + LETTER AND KISSED IT ! EYE CONTACT ♥ ; CHANGJO DO FLYING KISSES, HEARTS ,PEACE SIGN TO US !; TEENTOP DEPARTURE TT
111129 MNET ASIA MUSIC AWARDS 2011 ( MAMA )
SAW JUNHYUNG FACE TO FACE SUPER NEAR ! HE BLUR BLUR LOOK AT ME AS I CALL HIM ! ♥
111130 SAW MISSA, APINK, KIM HYUN JOONG, SIMON D, 2NE1 @ AIRPORT ♥ ! GOT PARK BOM AUTOGRAPHED ♥
111201 siwan reply me on twitter ♥
111203 homin (tvxq) at airport
111227 BLOCKB at airport.
Ukwon wave to me when i show his picture on the album!!!!
111228 BLOCKB fansigning
B-BOMB TOOK MY LETTERBOARD ♥ Zico wave, Jaehyo wave, B-bomb wave and look at me during fanmeet. ; B-Bomb acknowledge me ( smile , nodded and wave to me )when he look at my fanboard(letter at the back) during their dinner and after that took it !
111228 BLOCKB Departure
JAEHYO TOOK MY LETTERBOARD + PIKACHU AND SMILE !
120225 BOYFRIEND SISTAR ARRIVAL ;
DONGHYUN , JEONGMIN SAW MY DRAWING ; Minwoo wave to us . Jeongmin did heart to me when i did to him in van . They filmed us .
120226 FANMEET ;
JEONGMIN DONGHYUN ~ keep doing hearts to me during the fanmeet ~ jeongmin peace sigh to me and ndrea ♥ ; PASSED THEM ALL THE GIFT AND LETTERS TO BOYFRIEND AND SISTAR
120322 B.A.P SECRET ARRIVAL ;
Youngjae, Himchan, Yongguk, Daehyun, Zelo and Jongup ~ Zelo saw my drawing and pointed to it and keep waving and he was sitting beside Jongup and he pointed to jongup then point to me and wave ~ ; Zelo keep filmed us . ; Hyosung and Jieun wave to me ~ Youngjae shock face during imm rehearsals LOL. ~ long beach restaurant ~saw all our fangifts we gave at rws in the van ; yongguk filmed us and then daehyun posed for me to take the polaroid picture.
120324 SECRET B.A.P FANMEET ;
was at the restaurant
and saw youngjae wanted to give him the gift but he didnt notice me so zelo walk and he heard me saw my gift of the drawing at day 1 nodded a bit then i ran to him to pass him he took it before i was pushed away from the security.. saw him hopped and holding all the fanletters ( board) ; when they came out in van.. saw jongup put his boardletter ( the name) on the van TvT . Daehyun too ~ ; both of them hold it and bring to mbs and saw them using it to block the fans from taking them TT ! | 120324 B.A.P Secret departure .. We keep pointed and shout pabo to youngjae he keep pointing to us and do a "x" sigh non-stop . Daehyun pointed to youngjae too HAAHA. then yongguk , daehyun and zelo keep filming HAHA SOCUTE ♥ ; passed my last gift to daehyun coz youngjae was blocked and daehyun saw me and waited and i faster give him .. then during check-in departure, youngjae got hold of it TT .
120415 GOO HYESUN & JIRO fanmeet ♥ ! JAY PARK AT R16 ! FAREAST PLAZA♥ ♥
120428 JAY ARRIVAL ! FAN MEET !
120429 JAY PARK SHOWCASE ( GOT IN !! ) + STARAWARDS !
120429 JAY departed T__T didnt see him .
120614 Jay arrival with B1A4 for Boyz Nite Out;
Jay wave to us and saw B1A4 DAMN CLOSE. Took Jay, and jinyoung polaroid gave jinyoung to xinni. When and stalk them because my friend want to go. Saw Jay again! Saw B1A4 too ~ happy happy :D
120615 TEENTOP, CGSE, SHINee ARRIVE ~ (SHINee, TEENTOP DEPART);
Stalk teentop but in the end become SHINee (=___=) didn't want to but like ok....saw onew and key.. did not saw teentop at all. They went in to the SIS and never came out. When to the hotel, saw Jay, miss out CGSE but i was at the hotel. Saw the noona for them she say good since i like cgse HAHAH! passed the gift to the security guard he promised to give them. When to boyz nite out since my friend got a pair of free ticket suddenly! L.Joe saw me and perlin and wave even though we are very far from them but still near since is arena :D ! CGSE, johun saw my fanboard and wave like only once since all of them keep going to the moshpit :( ! We left after bno and go van want stalk CGSE since teentop already left to depart to korea then skali the van we stalk is Jay Park but i did took polaroid of jay and he saw me too when he entered the hotel. Waited damn long then go MBS thought that after party is like they go straight away but instead they back hotel. 11.30pm, we go back hotel. Awhile later, skali like an hour or so, saw Jay left to after party took polaroid again then CGSE .Didn't know that was the van, but when i saw, i run to the window. Saw Joeun, i started waving, then he saw me then i mouthed and pointed to myself " i am SOPIYA" he then give a really shocked face like "SOPIYA?!! " he even pointed to me. I nodded and he faster tapped a person beside him. Then is actually HAENGHUN ! Haenghun keep waving to me and Johun keep do heart to me. I signal and asked if can take a polaroid of them they nodded and pose. Haenghun keep peace and like wave to me only ;___; then like they byebye also looking to me so happy....
120616 CGSE, B1A4 DEPARTURE;
Saw B1A4, gongchan wave LOL! CGSE, i stand super near van. Joeun come out first then i faster shout JOEUN OPPA! HE LOOK ! Then, Haenghun i totally crazy keep shout then he finally saw me and waved to me and even pose for my polaroid SO HAPPY ;___;... then after that is eungjoo and jonghyun they totally ignore me coz so many shouting suddenly. I run to the window started waving ! Joeun saw me then got the "Oh! " face again. I keep like ask him pose he pose for me T_T then i go mouthed " Haenghun ?" He go turned and like find him then pointed to the other side. I quickly run towards the other side but never see anything coz curtain close. So, i go back then i go to eungjoo. Eungjoo saw my sister fanboard then saw the picture of the gift, he go OH!!! then do like a hugging motion then like saying he did take the gift! Then i ask him posed! Couldnt see Jonghyun so i put my whole face at the window LOL! Then, i saw the back van open, i quickly run towards it to see haenghun, he was facing the front i shouted " HAENGHUN OPPA! " he turned and wave to me. I then motion my polaroid and he hold his pose SO CUTE /melts/ then he keep do heart to me and i keep say "SARANGHAE! " He keep looking at me ( guess i was like the main ) then after that the back door close, i quickly go back to my spot to take picture of Joeun, Joeun was like posing for me again suddenly got flash! the polaroid got problem then he did the "AIGOO" face i quickly bowed and like mouthed sorry and mianhae! He like shaked his head and hand telling me nevermind and smile T__T ! Then he wore back his shades and let me take another one, he at first like normal pose then i like i go " merong " him. Then he "merong" then i snap ! Then like my sister want him open the window, he tried but failed. The noona also helped but failed then eungjoo tried too but dont know how then they like going left already so we keep waving BYEBYE. Then we cab to airport stalking the van! Then suddenly coz the van so far away suddenly we saw. So like we drove past them we hold up our fanboard and open the window then Johun and Eungjoo super shocked see us then like got another time second time over the van, they never saw us. After that near cip, i saw haenghun coz i run to that side. I keep waving to him and he wave back so cute T__T . and they go in cip and i never saw them already :( !
120809 Twi-light arrival;
Selca with everyone except black and minyeong ;__; siwan keep calling my name since he come out. he took my hat and the food support ; stalk till their hotel
120810 Twi-light Freestar showkase;
sneak in to the backstage kewkew. saw them. minyeong, taesung and siwan took picture of me, mingyan and clifford. During showkase, siwan drop his pin, got it. At the top of the stage thing, siwan saw me and keep " sopiya , sopiya, sopiya " . Siwan hug me after the showkase when they were exiting and say " thank you for coming to the showkase " .
120811 Twi-light Freestar photoshoot;
Wait outside for their lunch. Siwan remember me and play with me keep sopiya sopiya ;~; talked to taesung about my sister. He even ask me how selca with my polaroid. Told taesung his hairstyle i like a lot ! He say i very cute T__T . Then he selca with me . Told siwan his hairstyle pretty and handsome till i cannot he say i pretty ;~; . le cries. So shy , they selca with me all of them. Give my handphone to twi-light to selca themselves. Siwan very shock because it is lollipop phone ( -___-) heecheon take already got a shock because it is in korean language . Siwan go take my phone started taking two pictures with heecheon so amazed with my phone and tell me upload on twitter @__@ .They signed my polaroid and pictures. Hug them all at the dinner when i give them the gift. They very happy. Celebrated Jihyun birthday :) . Siwan stepped on my shoe -__- because i was behide him by accident and he dunno . They went clubbing. Was with siwan shaking hands he so happy keep " shake it shake it shake it like it like it like it " Tell him do gangnam style he go " singapore style" Heecheon at first dont want do gangnam style than whine then suddenly dance for us *0*
120812 Twi-light Freestar departure;
at mink, taesung saw me, my and cl. we say we cold, he go group hug us all. after that siwan drunk drunk but i was with him . Cl go hug black. siwan saw then hug me with cl group hug suddenly. After that go hotel wait for them. Siwan say byebye to me -__- . Later go airport with them . Siwan very tired but so cute hehe . His luggage go make my leg again -__- . disturb taesung! Black so cute ! Minyeong blur blur . Everyone cry T_______________T .
120825 Lee seunggi arrival , press conference;
Didnt when to his arrival because of school. Saw him at press conference, took his polaroid. When he exit, he hold my hand T_T ok is a SHAKE ! but is quite long and people mob him
120826 Lee seunggi fanmeet;
Didnt go however waited for him at the hotel really late and got his polaroid and i stand rather very close to him.
120902 Tony Ahn Tvnstarhunt ;
got his polaroid ,pass him gift . Freaking cute
120909 JJproject and Wondergirls , at hotel mbs;
Saw JB talk to him a bit , Yenny, Yubin
120910 JJProject and Wondergirls;
Saw Wondergirls at the swimming pool. ( forget who. ) Saw JR swimming called him and he wave T-T
120921 Kim So Jung and Girlfriend arrival;
When to their arrival. didnt take any polaroid .( only two people me and my friend embarass.) at night go the hotel and got polaroid picture with KSJ.
120922 Kpopgaga preview, KSJ and Gf;
Got their autograph and autographed album. Told KSJ to sign the polaroid i took with her. Girlfriend, Mizi took selca with my polaroid when she signing. When to the hotel lobby to sit down. When they came back, pass girlfriend gift, tell them to signed the polaroid they took for me. After that, KSJ came down again, took selca with her and hug her.
120923 Girlfriend @ Cine;
Talk to them, follow them at cine. Play with them after that. After their dinner, i took group polaroid with them. Cab down to their hotel and at lobby wait. One of the staff bring us up suddenly, so we then told them to selca with us and they show us a video (not going to release) after that signed, take photo, when down to walk around the club area ~ Play with them and photobomb them.
120924 Girlfriend @ Pomo; Departure
Look for them at pomo. Interact with them, eat the mooncake they gave us. Didn't go for their departure though :(
121230 M.I.B arrival
130117 Jay Park Meet and Greet
130315 Boyfriend arrival
Pass my gifts to Jeongmin during their rehearsals
130316 Boyfriend Solo fanmeeting
Jeongmin pick me for the game ^^ . Jeongmin wore my shirt I brought for him
130317 Boyfriend departure
Jeongmin wore my shirt to swim ~ Pass my fan to Donghyun ^^
130511 Lunafly arrival/ Fansign
130512 Lunafly showcase
130513 Lunafly departure
130521 Pewdiepie
130522 M.I.B Arrival
130523 M.I.B
130524 M.I.B Music Matters
130525 M.I.B Departure
131129 LC9 Arrival, Fansign
131130 LC9 Live Singapore showcase, SSS
131201 LC9 Hi-5 session , Dinner
131202 LC9 Departure
--KOREA--
131217 Meet lunafly
131218 Starkim ent - Meet hanbyul
131219 Lunafly at departure, M!Countdown saw Exo, History, Crayonpop, T-ara- Boram
131220 KBS Fanmeeting - M.I.B
131223 Lunafly arrival back to Korea, Meet siwan(Twi-light member)
131225 Meet 7942 at Gimpo airport
131226 Meet M.I.B (arirang radio), Lunafly and LC9 Departure
131229 Meet my trainee oppa at subway
131230 Arrival back to Korea Lunafly and LC9
131231 Go Starkim ent, pass gifts. Go b2m pass gifts
140101 To arirang radio
140102 Meet Lunafly
--end--
140110 Toppdogg arrival
140112 Toggdogg departure
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